hot mess monster @wenom@lesbian.solutions

fully ready to become undomesticated and feral at a moments notice, it's just gonna take one more discourse to push me over the edge

hi, i dont think ive made a post before about boundaries (though i have definitely tried) and if i have, sorry! i have memory issues!

i'm a pretty affectionate person, and definitely love recieving affection but i would really prefer to not recieve gestures of physical affection unless i am specifically asking

and please, unless im already talking about things in a sexual context, do not be sexual towards me

the exception to the last paragraph is men who should NEVER be sexual towards me, thank you

neurodivergent brains are amazing
it's either 0 or 100
no middle sliders

i get nervous complimenting people, especially people i don't know well (im scared of accidentally complimenting them in a creepy way), so just know that if i boost/fav yr selfie then i think you are cute/pretty/handsome/cool as heck/whichever descriptor makes you happiest!

i have no recollection of saying this but i fully stand by it

2 things u gotta know about me? I'm a big fat dyke!!! and I would literally die for my niece if she needed me to!!

thinking of inventing a bunch of fake lesbian stereotypes just to see what happens

i think that if a woman with a sword in a suit threatened me, well, that would just be neat

man im so forgetful, if i ever send u multiple follow requests after you've already denied me, it is not because im being a jerk who is pestering you intentionally!

i definitely forgot i already sent one and found ur profile again and was like "i think I've seen them before and think they're cool!!" so i send another one w/o realising i sent one in the first place

SWORDS FOR LESBIANS AND ALSO TRANS AND NB LESBIANS GET TWO SWORDS!!!

one of the encounters i have planned is a cave bear skeleton, bc they're scary as hell (but also amazing)

also cave bears!!!!!!!

i've put steppe bison to my world bc they're big lads and good friends

i think that my favourite part of worldbuilding in dnd is just putting extinct creatures in my world :)

i'm gay :)

growing up i didn't get to see women like me, in fact i didn't know it was possible to be gay (NEVERMIND BEING TRANS) so it took me a decade and a half to realise i was lesbian, then two decades to realise i was nonbinary (which only happened when i finally was happy with being a lesbian)

i truly believe if i had met more queer people growing up i would have been more able to accept myself and almost definitely have had less severe mental health issues

not to mention, young queer kids who have realised there's something different about them but that they don't have the words to articulate how need to see people like them that are happy and thriving so they know that's a future for them too

being a masc/gnc woman can be tough, but seeing lil girls look up @ u in wonderment and making the connection and realising they are allowed to not be feminine makes it so worth it

letting kids see diverse adults wont influence them, other than making them more worldly and compassionate, it just makes the world a safer place to be if you're not cishet and white and christian.

when jk rowling finally croaks it can we make "ding dong the witch is dead" chart like we did for margret thatcher?

Anne Shirley-Cuthbert of Green Gables, Avalon, found out lesbians existed for the first time and went "wow, that slaps fuck yeah lets freaking party!" meanwhile her friend is having a nervous breakdown that her aunt is gay

sometimes i worry im not actually gay and then other times i see a woman and my brain ceases to function

cats have hearts and souls and love their people so much, to say otherwise is so sad

my cat comforts me when im angry, she knows she calms me down, just today when i nearly had a panic attack and was crying she meowed and stood on me and grounded me

she is the very embodiment of love, not in spite of being a cat, because of it