[🌻] [ wen || he/they ] @wenom@lesbian.solutions

i jokingly made one of those silly teenage mutant ninja turtle logos saying "i am phucking bald" but now i unironically love it and want it on a shirt???

man im so forgetful, if i ever send u multiple follow requests after you've already denied me, it is not because im being a jerk who is pestering you intentionally!

i definitely forgot i already sent one and found ur profile again and was like "i think I've seen them before and think they're cool!!" so i send another one w/o realising i sent one in the first place

Hey y'all, I'm writing this post to pin it on my profile, so if you're able to read this before following me I'd really appreciate it, but I know that because it will have the d slur and q slur written in it many times it may be hard for some to read so I totally understand and don't blame you if you have to sit this post out. 💖

I tag posts with queer and dyke in them as q slur and d slur, retrospectively, and I don't expect the same of people I follow but would certainly appreciate it.

In the past, I've had negative reactions when tagging posts with queer in them as "q slur", so I wanted to get this out of the way first! The negative reactions were from people who were hurt by me tagging their identity as a slur, so I totally understand the hurt but as someone who can barely read the word dyke at times, I choose to do it for the people hurt by queer. I identify as queer, so I truly wish it weren't the case that there were people hurt by the word but the world isn't that simple and I want to do everything I can to avoid hurting other people.

If you are hurt by my tagging of queer, I am truly sorry, I wish there was a middle ground that could make everyone happy, I understand if you choose to not follow me/unfollow me in this case. 💖

This post isn't all heavy though! It's completely okay to call me queer, in any context, I feel incredibly empowered by it and identifying as queer gives me strength! Calling me queer as an individual or as a part of a group is absolutely fine and I love it. (That said, please don't call me queer to avoid saying the word lesbian, lesbian isn't a dirty word and I'm proud to be a lesbian. If you don't like the word lesbian, I would rather you didn't interact with me.)

On the other hand, I do not like being called dyke, especially by non-sapphics, and especially when not referring to me as a part of a group of dykes. If you are talking about me, do not substitute lesbian/sapphic for dyke; please just call me sapphic/lesbian instead. As I said, I don't expect those I follow to tag the word dyke - I know that for some people it is integral to their identity and I love that - but I'd certainly appreciate those who do!

Dyke can be a super empowering word, and when it is, it makes me feel incredible! But... when is isn't? It REALLY doesn't.

This was a lot to read, so I appreciate you staying to the end, have a great day and look after yourself! 💖🌻

I believe that a lot of sapphics growing up didn't know they had crushes on girls or only realised they had a crush through really confusing ways (such as believing they hated the girl they had a crush on). As I get older I realise that the girls I hated when I was younger were girls I thought were pretty and smart (though I was bullied a lot so I can't say I was particularly unjustified in most cases) [1/6]

cw dog eye contact

We went to see the pup today ;w; she's been reserved and pending a house visit, we're taking her home on saturday.

SWORDS FOR LESBIANS AND ALSO TRANS AND NB LESBIANS GET TWO SWORDS!!!

Ok cool, I should be re-following everyone; if I have followed you on any of my old accounts feel free to @/DM me, I followed you for a reason (I liked you and your posts) and I'm not avoiding you intentionally, I'm just forgetful!!

accessibility is revolutionary

xe was an enby
they were an enby
can i make it any more obvious?

i save so many images and never delete them......

i jokingly made one of those silly teenage mutant ninja turtle logos saying "i am phucking bald" but now i unironically love it and want it on a shirt???