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📌 ⁠–––– [ Introduction / Fenn ] 

🌻 ⁠–––– [ About ]

Hello there! You might know me as wen or wenom, but I'm Fennel⁠—or Fenn!⁠—and my pronouns are they/them or he/him (though anything but she/her or it/its is okay!).

I'm 21 years old and was born and presently live in Scotland, I am white and a tme nonbinary lesbian.

🖊️ ⁠–––– [ Interests ]

I like playing video games, but especially hidden role games with my friends, and I'm interested in comics–though I'm not super hardcore into either!

I enjoy a lot of creative hobbies like writing and drawing, anything where I can create with my hands is something I'm willing to try. At the moment I'm most interested in clay and watercolour but digital is my most common medium (you can actually find me @wisterialust if you'd like).

I've been trying to get into reading, you can see what I'm reading atm here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10490

🐜 –––– [ Hyperfixations ]

My current hyperfixations are: Among Us, Plants, Tarot & Bugs.

Disclaimer: I am not officially diagnosed with ADHD but that is because diagnosis is near impossible on the NHS, if I don't have ADHD, it's likely I have something very similar.

🌵 –––– [ Boundaries ]

I have a history of being ineffectual at asserting my boundaries, but I am going to take a hard stance from now on. If you ignore my boundaries that's a block.

Please read my boundaries here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10476

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boundaries, please read before requesting to follow 

I have memory issues; so I may not cover everything in this initial post, please check the replies in case I have added anything that is important.

I am not comfortable with gestures of physical affection, even if we know each other pretty well, unless I am specifically asking for them.

Please don't flirt with me or be sexual towards me in a serious way and out of nowhere, I struggle with social cues and have trauma I'd rather not rehash to justify my discomfort, I am not interested in an internet relationship, sorry. Also men should NEVER flirt with me or be sexual towards me.

Flirting in a joking way, or being sexual in a joking way (so long as the conversation was already sexual) is okay, just use discretion and common sense.

If you have any questions lemme know and I'll try to clarify! :lesbian_heart:

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hey y'all, I would appreciate boosts for this, there's a petition appealing to the British government for the removal of gender markers from ID (passports, drivers license, etc) and only folks from the UK may sign it but if it reaches 10,000 signatures, it is guaranteed a response from the government and if it reaches 100,000 it may even be debated in parliament

it only takes a few seconds to sign but could make a massive difference petition.parliament.uk/petitio

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i get nervous complimenting people, especially people i don't know well (im scared of accidentally complimenting them in a creepy way), so just know that if i boost/fav yr selfie then i think you are cute/pretty/handsome/cool as heck/whichever descriptor makes you happiest!

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d slur 

2 things u gotta know about me? I'm a big fat dyke!!! and I would literally die for my niece if she needed me to!!

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thinking of inventing a bunch of fake lesbian stereotypes just to see what happens

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i think that if a woman with a sword in a suit threatened me, well, that would just be neat

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man im so forgetful, if i ever send u multiple follow requests after you've already denied me, it is not because im being a jerk who is pestering you intentionally!

i definitely forgot i already sent one and found ur profile again and was like "i think I've seen them before and think they're cool!!" so i send another one w/o realising i sent one in the first place

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SWORDS FOR LESBIANS AND ALSO TRANS AND NB LESBIANS GET TWO SWORDS!!!

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if a woman calls me a bitch, even if its not affectionate, i truly do not care

but if a man does, i lose all domestication and cannot control my actions

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men are too comfortable calling women thots/bitches

we should make men afraid

there is a toothless cat at the humane society and this is the photo they have chosen to advertise him with:

Hawaii, US Imperialism 

Also Hawaii had a higher literacy rate than the US before colonization and banning of our culture and language.

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@wenom The straights are just confused honestly. They'll figure it out with time. You know, it's just a phase.

it is okay to never tell anyone your identity if that is what you need to do, i am sorry you have to live that way because i have no doubt it is lonely

but it doesn't make you any less queer

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biggest mistake we made as a community was making the youngsters believe that coming out is a necessary part of their journey

asking for money again [food mention] (~):boost_ok: 

Thanks heaps to everyone who shared my last begpost. Unfortunately, I only got one donation, & it didn't cover the amount I needed. While I’d forgotten that I was getting slightly more than usual from my disability payment this week (I’m going back to study this year), I can’t afford to get groceries for this week because of all the bills I mentioned in my last post.

I kind of need groceries to live.

I can also only use PayPal because cashapp/venmo don’t like Aus-failure. Thanks again, fediverse. paypal.me/HMNemulator

#TransCrowdfund #DisabilityCrowdfund

thank you so much to every last person who boosted my post, who commented with help, and especially those who sent me money 💖🥺 your support and kindness is going to help me return to digital art even sooner than I'd hoped!!! 💖💖

:boosts_ok_gay: Disabled, Queer artist needs help! (e-begging) 

Paypal: DM me for my paypal, it has my deadname, sadly
CashApp: £wenom
Ko-Fi: ko-fi.com/wenom

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Hey there! I'm Fennel, and I'm a 22 year old nonbinary lesbian from Scotland!

Recently, I have returned to art and really been throwing myself into it, it's been absolutely amazing and so good for my mental health. Except... my 5+ year old graphics tablet has unfortunately stopped working, which has stopped me from being able to create digital art - which is infinitely more accessible, at the moment, for me than traditional art.

I'm hoping to raise £70 for a second-hand tablet (£65 for the tablet, and £5 for shipping) but really any amount helps push me towards my goal, helps me afford a new tablet, and expidites my return to creating!

I want to be clear: it is not urgent, please, please don't put yourself in any problems! I do need support to get the tablet, but it doesn't need to be *now*.

Boosts help immensely, so thank you for any and all support, it means so much more than I am able to articulate! <3

amazing! im at £55/70!! thank you so much for your generosity!!!!! 💖 🥺

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God everyone in the UK mad because the dutch took a truck drivers ham sandwich is the fucking funniest shit. Apparently the border cop said "Welcome To Brexit" whcih is so fucking funny

uk pol 

it shocks me, but sadly it doesn't surprise me, that the UK is currently on course to pass a bill that essentially strips from its citizens the protection of law when the crimes in question are committed by the very people charged with upholding the law

thecanary.co/uk/analysis/2021/

this isn't the rule of law. this is legalised tyranny.

Hey yall, I really need help and am not sure what to do anymore

My wisdom teeth are very super impacted and they hurt and keep getting worse. And I also have cavities that I really need fixed. But unfortunately i live in the US I can’t afford $4000 for these essential procedures on my own

More info in my gofundme link below but if y’all could donate\boost\help in any way it’d mean a lot to me

Gofundme: bit.ly/2XtFxYt
Venmo & Cashapp: Leelumz
DM for PayPal

thanks to an incredible person I am at £50/£70!!! i only need £20!!!

i cannot thank you enough for all the boosts and support 💖🥺

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:boosts_ok_gay: Disabled, Queer artist needs help! (e-begging) 

Paypal: DM me for my paypal, it has my deadname, sadly
CashApp: £wenom
Ko-Fi: ko-fi.com/wenom

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Hey there! I'm Fennel, and I'm a 22 year old nonbinary lesbian from Scotland!

Recently, I have returned to art and really been throwing myself into it, it's been absolutely amazing and so good for my mental health. Except... my 5+ year old graphics tablet has unfortunately stopped working, which has stopped me from being able to create digital art - which is infinitely more accessible, at the moment, for me than traditional art.

I'm hoping to raise £70 for a second-hand tablet (£65 for the tablet, and £5 for shipping) but really any amount helps push me towards my goal, helps me afford a new tablet, and expidites my return to creating!

I want to be clear: it is not urgent, please, please don't put yourself in any problems! I do need support to get the tablet, but it doesn't need to be *now*.

Boosts help immensely, so thank you for any and all support, it means so much more than I am able to articulate! <3

i'm such a sentimental fool that I'm really close 2 crying cause i might have to replace my graphics tablet and i've had it for about 5 years

its absolutely beyond past time, but man... this old thing's done me well

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