❄️sapph-icicle❄️ @wenom@lesbian.solutions

Hey y'all, I'm writing this post to pin it on my profile, so if you're able to read this before following me I'd really appreciate it, but I know that because it will have the d slur and q slur written in it many times it may be hard for some to read so I totally understand and don't blame you if you have to sit this post out. 💖

I tag posts with queer and dyke in them as q slur and d slur, retrospectively, and I don't expect the same of people I follow but would certainly appreciate it.

In the past, I've had negative reactions when tagging posts with queer in them as "q slur", so I wanted to get this out of the way first! The negative reactions were from people who were hurt by me tagging their identity as a slur, so I totally understand the hurt but as someone who can barely read the word dyke at times, I choose to do it for the people hurt by queer. I identify as queer, so I truly wish it weren't the case that there were people hurt by the word but the world isn't that simple and I want to do everything I can to avoid hurting other people.

If you are hurt by my tagging of queer, I am truly sorry, I wish there was a middle ground that could make everyone happy, I understand if you choose to not follow me/unfollow me in this case. 💖

This post isn't all heavy though! It's completely okay to call me queer, in any context, I feel incredibly empowered by it and identifying as queer gives me strength! Calling me queer as an individual or as a part of a group is absolutely fine and I love it. (That said, please don't call me queer to avoid saying the word lesbian, lesbian isn't a dirty word and I'm proud to be a lesbian. If you don't like the word lesbian, I would rather you didn't interact with me.)

On the other hand, I do not like being called dyke, especially by non-sapphics, and especially when not referring to me as a part of a group of dykes. If you are talking about me, do not substitute lesbian/sapphic for dyke; please just call me sapphic/lesbian instead. As I said, I don't expect those I follow to tag the word dyke - I know that for some people it is integral to their identity and I love that - but I'd certainly appreciate those who do!

Dyke can be a super empowering word, and when it is, it makes me feel incredible! But... when is isn't? It REALLY doesn't.

This was a lot to read, so I appreciate you staying to the end, have a great day and look after yourself! 💖🌻

2 things u gotta know about me? I'm a big fat dyke!!! and I would literally die for my niece if she needed me to!!

(incomplete) list of gay things:
• cowboys
• frogs
• me!!!
• the person reading this

thinking of inventing a bunch of fake lesbian stereotypes just to see what happens

i think that if a woman with a sword in a suit threatened me, well, that would just be neat

I legitimately love humanity's obsession with extra-terrestrial life, it's so wonderful to me. Now, I'm not someone who feels particularly strongly about aliens but I definitely feel strongly about other people's feelings about aliens!

I think it's because, like, it's this childlike wonder and curiosity that is inherent to all humans that is so charming to me.

We're just a lonely little rock hurtling through space and we just wanna meet any other life and learn about it.

man im so forgetful, if i ever send u multiple follow requests after you've already denied me, it is not because im being a jerk who is pestering you intentionally!

i definitely forgot i already sent one and found ur profile again and was like "i think I've seen them before and think they're cool!!" so i send another one w/o realising i sent one in the first place

I believe that a lot of sapphics growing up didn't know they had crushes on girls or only realised they had a crush through really confusing ways (such as believing they hated the girl they had a crush on). As I get older I realise that the girls I hated when I was younger were girls I thought were pretty and smart (though I was bullied a lot so I can't say I was particularly unjustified in most cases) [1/6]

SWORDS FOR LESBIANS AND ALSO TRANS AND NB LESBIANS GET TWO SWORDS!!!

im always like "I don't like glitter" but if i see dice with glitter in them u best bet im gravitating toward them

cis men attempting to talk about menstruation is the WILDEST shit... it's equally hilarious and terrifying

in the first one i was the boy. in the second i was a character who was a boy.

hm.... ive had two dreams where i was a boy this year, i dont think im gonna think too much about that though

sometimes i add posts to my drafts

but do you know what i NEVER do? look at my drafts

saving things to my drafts is as good as permanently deleting them

they no longer exist once theyre there

me: having a bad time
my friends: i should give them some space
my fear of abandonment: 👀

today is a gay day and i feel it in my bones!!!!

fbvddbdjfj im fcuking gay!!!!

hey y'all, my friend is an independent #disabled #queer artist who has started up a business (currently he mainly makes pins and such!), he has a new mini Kickstarter campaign tunning for just the cutest dang gingerbread #eevee enamel pins!

if you're able to help out and get one for yourself, that's amazing and would make him (and me shfbrjkr) so happy!! if not, that's okay and totally understandable, he doesn't advertise (afaik) pretty much he only spreads these things via word of mouth so boosting this so it reaches a larger audience, sharing on social media, etc is so incredibly helpful! (if you want a link to any of his social medias in order to share his posts from there lemme know and im super happy to help out!!!)

the Kickstarter only has 39 hours left and literally only needs about 14(!!!) more backers at the lowest tier (or less at the higher tier!) you can also donate without recieving a reward id you'd like?

anyway i shall stop rambling, thank you so much for taking the time to read! here's the link: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/irisidium/gingerbread-eevee-hard-enamel-pin

#enamelpins #transartist #pokemon