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๐Ÿ“Œ โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Introduction / Fenn ] 

๐ŸŒป โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ About ]

Hello there! You might know me as wen or wenom, but I'm Fennelโ โ€”or Fenn!โ โ€”and my pronouns are they/them or he/him (though anything but she/her or it/its is okay!).

I'm 21 years old and was born and presently live in Scotland, I am white and a tme nonbinary lesbian.

๐Ÿ–Š๏ธ โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Interests ]

I like playing video games, but especially hidden role games with my friends, and I'm interested in comicsโ€“though I'm not super hardcore into either!

I enjoy a lot of creative hobbies like writing and drawing, anything where I can create with my hands is something I'm willing to try. At the moment I'm most interested in clay and watercolour but digital is my most common medium (you can actually find me @wisterialust if you'd like).

I've been trying to get into reading, you can see what I'm reading atm here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10490

๐Ÿœ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Hyperfixations ]

My current hyperfixations are: Among Us, Plants, Tarot & Bugs.

Disclaimer: I am not officially diagnosed with ADHD but that is because diagnosis is near impossible on the NHS, if I don't have ADHD, it's likely I have something very similar.

๐ŸŒต โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Boundaries ]

I have a history of being ineffectual at asserting my boundaries, but I am going to take a hard stance from now on. If you ignore my boundaries that's a block.

Please read my boundaries here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10476

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boundaries, please read before requesting to follow 

I have memory issues; so I may not cover everything in this initial post, please check the replies in case I have added anything that is important.

I am not comfortable with gestures of physical affection, even if we know each other pretty well, unless I am specifically asking for them.

Please don't flirt with me or be sexual towards me in a serious way and out of nowhere, I struggle with social cues and have trauma I'd rather not rehash to justify my discomfort, I am not interested in an internet relationship, sorry. Also men should NEVER flirt with me or be sexual towards me.

Flirting in a joking way, or being sexual in a joking way (so long as the conversation was already sexual) is okay, just use discretion and common sense.

If you have any questions lemme know and I'll try to clarify! :lesbian_heart:

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hey y'all, I would appreciate boosts for this, there's a petition appealing to the British government for the removal of gender markers from ID (passports, drivers license, etc) and only folks from the UK may sign it but if it reaches 10,000 signatures, it is guaranteed a response from the government and if it reaches 100,000 it may even be debated in parliament

it only takes a few seconds to sign but could make a massive difference petition.parliament.uk/petitio

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i get nervous complimenting people, especially people i don't know well (im scared of accidentally complimenting them in a creepy way), so just know that if i boost/fav yr selfie then i think you are cute/pretty/handsome/cool as heck/whichever descriptor makes you happiest!

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d slur 

2 things u gotta know about me? I'm a big fat dyke!!! and I would literally die for my niece if she needed me to!!

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thinking of inventing a bunch of fake lesbian stereotypes just to see what happens

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i think that if a woman with a sword in a suit threatened me, well, that would just be neat

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man im so forgetful, if i ever send u multiple follow requests after you've already denied me, it is not because im being a jerk who is pestering you intentionally!

i definitely forgot i already sent one and found ur profile again and was like "i think I've seen them before and think they're cool!!" so i send another one w/o realising i sent one in the first place

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SWORDS FOR LESBIANS AND ALSO TRANS AND NB LESBIANS GET TWO SWORDS!!!

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nsfw 

@wenom "And it was < thiiiiiiiiisssssssss > big!

nsfw 

you know those dating app pictures where the guy is holding up a fish he's caught?

i'm gonna do that with a strap

Adults with ADHD feel guilty asking for certain accommodations or resources.

Adults with ADHD feel guilty for needing to take medicine to function "normally".

Adults with ADHD feel shame for not functioning the same way they believe "everyone else" does.

Adults with ADHD feel shame for needing to find creative new ways to work with their brain.

It can be debilitating, and therapists should recognise this, and work together with such adults to identify and overcome these feelings.

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i am a normal bog, there are no witches in this bog, i am warm and inviting and there are absolutely no witches living in this wetland

Currently have two film cameras in my posession (one is a basic point and shoot, brownie 127, and the other is an SLR, Praktica Super TL) and a typewriter (brother deluxe 220 - probably from 1969, but i need to double check!)

and i just adore how sturdy and beautifully built they are

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there is romance in that which is long defunct but still functional, a persistence that mirrors humanity, i think

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isn't there something wonderful about the human love of things which existed before us?

the appreciation for the mechanical which is now electrical is a quite universal experience

it's not that we loathe the convenience, its that we see the details in the older technology, the resilience, it's beautiful

hey, welcome to my tabletop roleplaying game. choose your character's race

if anything, i remain mildly shocked that in the midsts of revolution and attempts to scratch at a "new normal", most of you don't know how to act right

that, is.......... a truly embarrassing facet of the end of the world if i ever saw it

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the reason why pigeon-based mail is superior is that if you delt too anxious to respond to someone you could just say

"Oh dang, your letter didn't arrive? Pigeon must've got lost :("

and what are they gonna do? turn on read receipts? I think not

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yall ever feel like handwriting a letter with a dip pen, on a scroll of parchment (natch), then sealing it with wax before attaching it to a pigeon and sending it off?

Racist in my opinion, history 

It's in such bottomlessly poor taste to portray Thomas Jefferson as a Black man that I don't think I'll ever get over it. The things that man actually did to Black people, I think putting a palatable, woke sheen on him only serves to obscure the very real abuses he committed on a personal and national scale.

Racist in my opinion, history 

I've said this before, but it's ahistorical to say "well it was a different time." There wasn't ever a time when chaining people and keeping them captive wasn't shocking. We have historical accounts of contemporaries of Jefferson's saying it was incredibly fucked of him to write what he wrote while treating people the way he did.

But I guess if you don't want to cast the founders down completely, you must find a way to live with them.

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๐Ÿ“Œ โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Introduction / Fenn ] 

๐ŸŒป โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ About ]

Hello there! You might know me as wen or wenom, but I'm Fennelโ โ€”or Fenn!โ โ€”and my pronouns are they/them or he/him (though anything but she/her or it/its is okay!).

I'm 21 years old and was born and presently live in Scotland, I am white and a tme nonbinary lesbian.

๐Ÿ–Š๏ธ โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Interests ]

I like playing video games, but especially hidden role games with my friends, and I'm interested in comicsโ€“though I'm not super hardcore into either!

I enjoy a lot of creative hobbies like writing and drawing, anything where I can create with my hands is something I'm willing to try. At the moment I'm most interested in clay and watercolour but digital is my most common medium (you can actually find me @wisterialust if you'd like).

I've been trying to get into reading, you can see what I'm reading atm here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10490

๐Ÿœ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Hyperfixations ]

My current hyperfixations are: Among Us, Plants, Tarot & Bugs.

Disclaimer: I am not officially diagnosed with ADHD but that is because diagnosis is near impossible on the NHS, if I don't have ADHD, it's likely I have something very similar.

๐ŸŒต โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Boundaries ]

I have a history of being ineffectual at asserting my boundaries, but I am going to take a hard stance from now on. If you ignore my boundaries that's a block.

Please read my boundaries here: lesbian.solutions/@wenom/10476

๐Ÿ“š โ โ€“โ€“โ€“โ€“ [ Currently Reading ] 

Howdy, I've made it my mission to spend more time reading, so I suppose that the best way to do that is to make others hold me accountable lol.

1. The Hate U Give - Angie Thomas [about 50% of the way through]
2. The Colour of Magic - Terry Pratchet [I'm only a couple of pages in....]

fucked to perceive, no one i know is aware of their sensory input

hm, i guess i best make a new intro with updated details since i have a new name

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